Stress Free is The Way To Be
January 31st, 2012Large numbers of Americans are stressed out. Many, extremely so. And far too many are failing to take adequate action to alleviate the stress in their lives. If we recognize the negative health implications of high stress levels - heart disease, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, diabetes, obesity and depression, among others - then why are so many of us doing such a poor job at managing it? We tend to see our prospects as being far better than they may actually be, and particularly when compared to the next guy. This optimism lets us deal with hardship and take chances in life.
The 20% or so of people who do not have an optimism bias are clinically depressed. In fact, when things go really bad, people become more optimistic, not less, because that’s when we need it most. Optimism is better for your mental health. It eases your mind and actually lowers your stress. It also benefits your physical health. Optimistic people are more likely to follow doctors’ orders, to take vitamins, to eat better and exercise. Also, optimism can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you believe in a positive outcome, you are more likely to act toward it. The downside to the optimism bias comes into play when people’s healthy perceptions lull them into denial, rather than thoughtful action.
People believe they have a lot of control over their lives sometimes even when things are truly beyond their control. They explain to themselves that there are things they can do to avoid negative consequences. Risks that are a matter of choice don’t seem to scare us as much. It’s a whole other emotional language. The bottom line, though, is that stress is really a bad thing. They are running around freaking people out about rare diseases when stress is way worse as a contributor to an army of chronic illnesses, including certain cancers.
Two things to keep in mind: you want to be aware of the risk and you want to be clear about the psychology behind the way you read and assess the risk. When you know both, you will be better equipped to take action. People should become aware of their biases and understand how the brain creates these illusions. There is nothing wrong with people having the belief that they’re going to be okay, as long as it doesn’t end there. Encourage the optimism, but also stress the need for action.
“The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another”. ~William James















